Once again, Floravi demystifies a sexual problem present in women of all ages, the difficulty of orgasm. To put it simply, this is the marked difficulty in reaching orgasm either in a generalized way or in sexual relations with a partner. The absence or low frequency of female orgasm can cause significant distress for the person as well as the couple. It is important to note that an absence of orgasm does not necessarily imply an absence of sexual pleasure; sexual pleasure is not limited to this experience. We are talking about it here, because this difficulty affects a large number of women, but it can be remedied!
To understand this phenomenon properly, we must first know more about orgasm itself. It is a reflex that occurs when sufficient sexual stimulation (often physical, especially of the clitoris and psychological) is reached. Orgasm is therefore the physical and psychological pleasure associated with the muscular contractions and then the relaxation experienced when reaching the threshold.
The combination of physical and psychological stimulation (comfort, well-being, desire, self-esteem) allows you to multiply the sensations felt and reach a new level of pleasure!
It is important to note that orgasm is not necessary for a sexual experience to be considered complete and satisfying.
Main factors contributing to difficulty in orgasm:
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Discomfort or insecurity about intimacy.
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A lack of self-confidence.
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Sexual pressure to perform.
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Simulate orgasm repeatedly.
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A lack of interest in sexuality.
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Lack of knowledge about your own body or that of your partner.
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A past physical or psychological trauma, sometimes linked to sexuality.
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Everyday anxiety or the accumulation of stress.
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Depression, mild or severe.
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Recurring unsatisfactory sexual intercourse.
Some ways to overcome it.
The first step is often to start the conversation. Many people limit themselves out of shame or a feeling of inadequacy, thus limiting their own sexual fulfillment. Having difficulties with orgasm is something common, it does not signal inadequacy, but simply a need to adjust :) Communication with your partner will allow you to destigmatize this reality that affects you both. You can also consult a psychologist or sexologist to better understand the predisposing, precipitating and maintaining factors of this difficulty that you are experiencing. These professionals will be able to provide you with tools to support you in this exploration process. Regarding physical pain, if applicable, Floravi strongly suggests that you consult a health professional such as a gynecologist or a specialized physiotherapist.and in perineal rehabilitation to complement your approach.
Another tip we have for you: decentralize orgasm. Often the desire to reach orgasm can increase the pressure and decrease the chances of it happening. Focus more on pleasure in the broader sense, on connecting with your body and/or with your partner and on exploration. Get out of your comfort zone, try something new, find desire and lightness in sexuality!
How can Floravi vibrators help?
At Floravi, we offer a range of vibrators: Lila, Daphne, Fuschia, Camelia all have several vibration modes and intensities. These intimate accessories are excellent for targeted and progressive stimulation of erogenous zones. You can press the vibrator directly on your clitoris or on the vaginal walls and discover which type of stimulation pleases you the most. Still not convinced? Know that using Floravi vibrators increases desire and sexual tension in addition to promoting self-affirmation. That's not all! Reaching this level of pleasure will also allow you to increase the level of excitement and, by the same token, to have better lubrication. Floravi wants to encourage women to practice sexual activity more frequently, allowing the production of endorphin and oxytocin, substances beneficial to health.
Good self-knowledge and increased pleasure can only be beneficial!
SOURCES:
https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/001953.htm#:~:text=Including%20clitoral%20stimulation%20in%20sexual,to%20achieve%20orgasm%20with%20masturbation.